Some of us are social butterflies while others prefer a quieter, more private lifestyle. Despite these preferences, interpersonal relationships are an important part of everyone’s personal and professional well-being.

Like many things in life, we can become better at building relationships by mastering a few basics:

1. Accept and celebrate differences. It’s easy to socialize with those who share your beliefs and backgrounds. But if you want to enlarge your social circle, it’s helpful to reach out to those who are different from you. As your relationships deepen, you may be surprised to discover how much you have in common.
2. Communicate effectively. Getting to know others is a matter of give and take. While it’s helpful to ask open-ended questions, it’s equally important to focus on their answers.
3. Give people your time. While much of today’s communication is done through email and texts, face-to-face interactions play an important role in solidifying relationships. Make plans to spend time with people you enjoy.
4. Be consistent and manage emotions. If you’re going through a difficult time, it’s helpful to let others know this by sharing whatever you feel comfortable sharing. Others will appreciate your openness and honesty.
5. Be genuine, positive and trustworthy. When you feel good about who you are, others will want to spend time with you. By building positive relationships, you’ll feel happier, more fulfilled, connected and supported.